when thr is a problem...
thr are oso oways :-
1.cause of dis problem
2.effect of dis problem
3.solution to solve dis problem
每当一样问题发生时
都会有3 样东西跟随它而来
1.事发原因
2.后果
3.解决方法

1.cause of dis problem
-y does dis problem happen?
+ think by different point of view..
+think rationally=)
1.事发原因
-为什么这样事情会发生？
+试看从不同角度看
+理智+ 客观地看待问题
+想看自己到底有做错什么吗?

2.effect of dis problem
-wat will dis problem lead to?
+ will dis effect affect a lot of ppl?
+ does dis problem a big problem?
2.后果
-这个问题会带来什么后果?
+会影响很多人吗?
+这个后果很严重吗?

3. solution of dis problem
- CAUTION: never try to escape from de problem...solve it wisely
+ 1st...can u solve de prob?
+ if u can....how?
+ never tangguhkan dis problem..solve it as soon as possible
3.解决方法
-千万别逃避问题...明智地解决问题
+第一...问自己...你解决得了问题吗?
+如果可以解决的话...应该怎样解决呢?
+如果能力所能及...立即解决问题...千万别拖...耗着的话...问题会越来越大
一定要有个人踏出第一步的...所以别太过要脸...